Friday
Yesterday was just one of those days. Tom pushed to get the quitclaim deed and something told me something was up. Not to mention I had other people saying why.
So the closing was suppose to happen yesterday. When things really weren't making any sense I started making some phone calls. I found out when the closing was and where. I asked about them setting up an escrow account so I could be sure and get my money. Then when I told Tom I was waiting for the closing attorney to tell me about the escrow thing he went off. Which made no sense cause he told me to call them and ask. Then I wrote back that I could go to the closing. Again he went off saying that he wouldn't be there. Then he sends another email saying that he would be there. I got Michael to ride with me because I knew he could wait in the lobby and not have to be in the closing. I needed someone to help keep my mind off of the pending doom I felt. So we get to the office and wait for a little, the guy escorts us back to a room because apparently jackass told them I'd be a problem. So the guy comes back after we discussed the money and everything and says oh the house didn't appraise for what we thought. How interesting that the house didn't appraise for what they thought and they just figure it out DURING the closing? So I kept my cool and he said what do you want to do? He said Tom wasn't even there at the closing.
What this part boiled down to was Tom made an offer of $100,000 less than we had agreed on. I guess he thought I'd jump at the money if I were at the closing. I stayed nice to the guy cause it wasn't his fault. The guy asked if I wanted to take the offer and go ahead and close and I said no. So he tried to smooth things over and I stayed nice to him and left.
The thing is Tom was desparate to get the quitclaim deed. He had no intentions of giving me the money he agreed to. He figured he would force me into taking what "he offered" after closing because I'd have no choice. Luckly I have people who warned me of what they saw. So I was suspicious.
Anyway, so I get home and was determined not to let this get to me. I was doing fairly well with it other than being pissed off that he would do something so low. So I am trying to distract myself when I see that something is up with my email. I go and check and he has deleted my email account. On my way to bed I see he has canceled my cell phone also.
So the closing was suppose to happen yesterday. When things really weren't making any sense I started making some phone calls. I found out when the closing was and where. I asked about them setting up an escrow account so I could be sure and get my money. Then when I told Tom I was waiting for the closing attorney to tell me about the escrow thing he went off. Which made no sense cause he told me to call them and ask. Then I wrote back that I could go to the closing. Again he went off saying that he wouldn't be there. Then he sends another email saying that he would be there. I got Michael to ride with me because I knew he could wait in the lobby and not have to be in the closing. I needed someone to help keep my mind off of the pending doom I felt. So we get to the office and wait for a little, the guy escorts us back to a room because apparently jackass told them I'd be a problem. So the guy comes back after we discussed the money and everything and says oh the house didn't appraise for what we thought. How interesting that the house didn't appraise for what they thought and they just figure it out DURING the closing? So I kept my cool and he said what do you want to do? He said Tom wasn't even there at the closing.
What this part boiled down to was Tom made an offer of $100,000 less than we had agreed on. I guess he thought I'd jump at the money if I were at the closing. I stayed nice to the guy cause it wasn't his fault. The guy asked if I wanted to take the offer and go ahead and close and I said no. So he tried to smooth things over and I stayed nice to him and left.
The thing is Tom was desparate to get the quitclaim deed. He had no intentions of giving me the money he agreed to. He figured he would force me into taking what "he offered" after closing because I'd have no choice. Luckly I have people who warned me of what they saw. So I was suspicious.
Anyway, so I get home and was determined not to let this get to me. I was doing fairly well with it other than being pissed off that he would do something so low. So I am trying to distract myself when I see that something is up with my email. I go and check and he has deleted my email account. On my way to bed I see he has canceled my cell phone also.
2 Comments:
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The more you show you're not the insane bitch he's making you out to be, the better it is for you - and Tom is in for a massive wake-up call. Watch for your necessities around the house though: power/water/air before he tries shutting those off as well - he's obviously not one to think of the boys in this, or in anything now that his pencil-eraser-sized dick is in the clincher......
I wonder if his new cars will fit side by side up his ass?
Shall we try and find out?
Hi Georgia,
Have you contacted a Womens Rights group in your area? They will advise and even send an attorney, probono,with you to the settlement when it takes place. You are so wise keeping cool when you found out about the shenannigans going on! Hold out for what you want and find out all you can before going back in there. Lots of Strength and Love being sent from me to you!! Peace, Annabelle
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