I was talking with my sister yesterday. We covered a lot of ground as is usual when you talk with a sister. We finally started talking about horses. About how you have to build a relationship with the horse in order to get the best out of them. So we talked about this for a while and then we went to my divorce.

She said I'm going to say something using an analogy you'll accept. I said ok... She said, I've seen your relationship in this way. A beautiful wild horse caught by a man who keeps pushing her until she gives in to what he wants. Finally he has won and you do as you are told. You were broken by him.