So I've been sitting here contemplating younger men. Well we are talking about it on WG so I'm busy thinking about it.
Is it about love, or lust? Either, neither or both? Is it implausible for a younger man to fall in love with an older woman or vice versa? Is it wrong? If so, then why? If not, then why?
Let's tackle the love issue first. Love is possible, but is a younger person's love more fleeting than an older persons? Maybe... I really don't think age can stand in the way of love, true love. I'm not talking love/lust, I mean real honest to Goddess love. Lay down your life for that person love. A love that has followed you through life times. A love, when you first speak or see the person you know beyond doubt that the person is part of your soul/heart.
Now lust... There is nothing wrong with lust, except it burns out. You start seeing the persons negatives and not be able to get past them as part of that person. At this point you really probably want nothing more than a good fuck. Not that a good fuck is bad either if that's all you are interested in. With either Love or lust you have time committed to that person. A bond has been created. Maybe not one that you can physically see but it's there. Lust can happen at any age.
So now we have both love and lust. Yes, lust being usually the first thing that gets you there. Maybe the first to go too. Good lusty love is a fine thing to have as long as you know that's what it is. Don't' bet the farm on it lasting.
I guess usually you figure that the younger man has nothing to offer in financial stability, lacks maturity and so forth. All of these are possible. They could even just being playing with you. Not like an older woman wouldn't stoop to playing games either. Could both just being using the other to say they were dating an Older/younger person? Don't know the answer to that.
Would I be comfortable dating a younger man? I would have to say it depended on the man. If he was mature acting then no. If he acted like he was 12 then hell yeah. LOL That'd be the kind you just have around for sex cause that's probably all they will want from you anyway. Heck I know so older men who act worse than a 12 year old would. LOL You get the point though.
Is it about love, or lust? Either, neither or both? Is it implausible for a younger man to fall in love with an older woman or vice versa? Is it wrong? If so, then why? If not, then why?
Let's tackle the love issue first. Love is possible, but is a younger person's love more fleeting than an older persons? Maybe... I really don't think age can stand in the way of love, true love. I'm not talking love/lust, I mean real honest to Goddess love. Lay down your life for that person love. A love that has followed you through life times. A love, when you first speak or see the person you know beyond doubt that the person is part of your soul/heart.
Now lust... There is nothing wrong with lust, except it burns out. You start seeing the persons negatives and not be able to get past them as part of that person. At this point you really probably want nothing more than a good fuck. Not that a good fuck is bad either if that's all you are interested in. With either Love or lust you have time committed to that person. A bond has been created. Maybe not one that you can physically see but it's there. Lust can happen at any age.
So now we have both love and lust. Yes, lust being usually the first thing that gets you there. Maybe the first to go too. Good lusty love is a fine thing to have as long as you know that's what it is. Don't' bet the farm on it lasting.
I guess usually you figure that the younger man has nothing to offer in financial stability, lacks maturity and so forth. All of these are possible. They could even just being playing with you. Not like an older woman wouldn't stoop to playing games either. Could both just being using the other to say they were dating an Older/younger person? Don't know the answer to that.
Would I be comfortable dating a younger man? I would have to say it depended on the man. If he was mature acting then no. If he acted like he was 12 then hell yeah. LOL That'd be the kind you just have around for sex cause that's probably all they will want from you anyway. Heck I know so older men who act worse than a 12 year old would. LOL You get the point though.
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